You know when i was getting raised by my parents and i am talking back in the late 50's people repected you as a person not for what you had
When you established a friendship it was a friendship not a pretend friendship so they could get something of yours

Now that I am older and have children of my own people say they are my friends they come to me with their problems My husband and I try to help them out now they want our children ( 2 from a previous mistake of my life ) and who is dating a ex so called friend all the years they were growing up no support to help now they reach their older years and all of a sudden our house is a bad place to live in come live with us ( my ex friend and ex husband joined up in teams ) they call CAS with hurtful claims not caring how this will affect the child they point fingers and yell mean accussing things once again they were not around to raise them put them thru school feed them that was our duty and we did it well i have a child who is a wonderful picture maker and won a prize thru the school and is getting a award in January I have another who is getting a car and has a job I dont think in fact I know we did not go wrong with these children but the two ex's in my life believe we did and she said she was a friend a user and back stabber i do believe in So if you say you have friends keep a close eye out later in your life it may not be what you think it is my beliefs my third child has a paper route to make money for herself and show her the responsibllities of accepting to deliver the papers